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    • About Dr. Cates
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  • Self-Help
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  • Training and Workshops
  • Maternal Narcissism
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Therapy or Consulting: Which Is Right for Me?

Therapy -vs- Consulting


Choosing between therapy and consulting can feel confusing—but the difference is simpler than it may seem.


Therapy is best if you’re looking for:

  • Support in processing emotional pain, trauma, or anxiety
  • A deeper understanding of past and present relational patterns
  • Clinical guidance for healing and long-term change
  • A space to work through experiences that feel overwhelming or unresolved

Consulting may be a better fit if you’re:

  • Navigating a high-conflict family, workplace, or professional relationship
  • Looking for expert insight into narcissistic and manipulative dynamics
  • Needing a strategic plan for difficult conversations, boundaries, or next steps
  • Ready to make informed decisions with clarity and confidenceBoth services are designed to support growth—but in different ways.


If you’re unsure, you don’t have to figure it out alone. We can discuss your needs and determine the best fit for you.


The most important step is getting started—clarity comes from there. Get started!





Frequently Asked Questions

Please reach us at admin@catescc.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.

Services are offered virtually for your convenience. Therapy services are available to clients located in North Carolina, while coaching and consulting services are available nationwide and internationally.


That’s completely okay. You don’t have to come in with the “right” words—just showing up is enough. I’ll help guide the conversation so you don’t have to figure it out on your own.


That’s okay. You don’t have to leave to start therapy. This is a place to begin understanding what you’re experiencing, gain clarity, and explore your options at your own pace.

At the same time, it’s important to know that a therapist or coach cannot ethically support ongoing abuse without addressing safety. Our work will focus on helping you recognize what’s happening and move toward a safer, healthier place when you’re ready.


All sessions are held online via a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform. You can join for therapy from anywhere in North Carolina, or be coached or consulted nationally or internationally. All you need is a quiet space in an environment of comfort.


Call us at 704-216-4998, email admin@catescc.com, or use the scheduling link below to request a brief screening to establish which is best for you. Support is here when you’re ready to take the next step.


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