A small, therapist-led online coaching group for survivors leaving narcissistic and toxic relationships — designed to help you heal, rebuild, and reclaim your life.
Leaving a narcissistic or toxic relationship is one of the hardest things a person can do. But for many survivors, leaving doesn't bring the relief they expected — it brings a new wave of confusion, grief, and disorientation that can feel just as overwhelming as the relationship itself.
If you've recently left — or are in the process of leaving — a narcissistic, high-conflict, or emotionally abusive relationship, you may be experiencing:
Trauma BondingThat inexplicable pull back toward someone who hurt you. The grief of missing a person who caused you harm. The push and pull between knowing you made the right choice and feeling like you can't survive without them. Trauma bonding is a recognized psychological response to prolonged emotional abuse — and it is not a sign of weakness. It is a sign that you were manipulated by someone who was very good at it.
Gaslighting Confusion: Difficulty trusting your own memory, perception, and judgment after months or years of having your reality denied, minimized, or twisted. You may find yourself constantly second-guessing your decisions, replaying conversations, or wondering if you were the problem all along. You weren't.
Emotional WithdrawalLeaving a narcissistic relationship can trigger a withdrawal response similar to leaving an addiction — anxiety, restlessness, grief, physical symptoms, and an overwhelming urge to reconnect. Understanding this response is the first step in moving through it.
Difficulty Rebuilding ConfidenceYears of criticism, manipulation, and emotional erosion can leave you not knowing who you are outside of the relationship. Rebuilding self-worth, self-trust, and confidence after narcissistic abuse is possible — but it takes the right support.
If any of this sounds familiar, you are not broken. You are a survivor who deserves real support.


Led by Dr. Nzinga Cates, LCMHC — a licensed clinician with over 25 years of mental health experience, a Doctorate in Forensic Psychology with a specialization in Victimology, and her own lived experience as a narcissistic abuse survivor — this group combines clinical expertise, education, and genuine community support in a way that most programs simply cannot offer.
This group gives you three things most survivors are desperately missing:
90-minute small supportive environment held weekly on Mondays, starting March 16th. $100 per person/group session

Were you raised by a narcissistic or toxic parent?
Many adult children of narcissistic parents struggle with:
• chronic self-doubt
• guilt when setting boundaries
• people-pleasing and fear of disappointing others
• difficulty trusting themselves or their decisions
If you're unsure whether your parent may have had narcissistic traits, you may recognize some of these experiences growing up:
This weekly online group provides education, tools, and support for healing from narcissistic
family dynamics.
90-minute small supportive environment held weekly on Thursdays, starting March 19th. $100 per person/group session

Ending a relationship with a narcissistic partner can be one of the most confusing and
emotionally exhausting experiences a person can face. Manipulation, gaslighting, intimidation,
and legal games can leave you feeling overwhelmed and questioning your reality.
This 6-Week Coaching Group is designed to help you understand the dynamics of narcissistic
abuse, protect yourself during the divorce process, and begin reclaiming your power.
In this group you will learn how to:
If you are currently divorcing or recently separated from a narcissistic partner, this group can
help you gain clarity, confidence, and the tools needed to move forward.
Spots are limited.
Wednesday evenings 5-6:30 beginning April 1, 2026. This group runs for 6 weeks. Coaching is available for North carolina and all 50 states.
This is a small, intentionally intimate group — because healing from narcissistic abuse requires a space where you feel genuinely safe, not lost in a crowd.
Fully Online
Sessions are held via a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform — accessible from anywhere in North Carolina, from the privacy of your own space.
Weekly 90-Minute Sessions
Each session combines education, group discussion, and skill-building — structured enough to be productive, open enough to honor where you are.
Small, Safe Environment
Limited group size means every voice is heard. You'll never feel like just another face in a large session. This is an intimate, supported space.
Education + Practical Tools
Each session includes education about narcissistic abuse dynamics alongside practical, actionable tools you can use immediately in your healing.
Dr. Nzinga Cates, LCMHC
✓ Leaving or recently leaving a narcissistic, toxic, or emotionally abusive relationship
✓ Feeling confused, isolated, or struggling to make sense of what happened
✓ Experiencing trauma bonding, emotional withdrawal, or grief after leaving
✓ Ready to rebuild your confidence, identity, and self-worth
✓ Seeking community with others who truly understand your experience
✓ Open to structured, therapist-led education and skill-building
✓ Located anywhere in North Carolina and able to attend virtual sessions
- You are currently in an active crisis requiring immediate individual support
-You are still in the relationship and not ready to consider leaving
-You are looking for individual one-on-one therapy rather than a group setting
- You are outside of North Carolina (we can discuss options)
Individual therapy may be a better fit. Dr. Cates offers private, one-on-one sessions in Charlotte, NC and virtually across North Carolina for narcissistic abuse survivors.
Please reach us at admin@catescc.comif you cannot find an answer to your question.
This is a therapist-led coaching group, not a clinical therapy group. It is facilitated by Dr. Cates, a licensed clinician, and provides education, tools, and support — but is structured as a coaching program rather than clinical group therapy.
No. Participation is always encouraged but never forced. You can listen, observe, and engage at your own comfort level. Many participants find value in simply hearing others' experiences.
This group is designed for individuals who are leaving or have recently left a toxic or narcissistic relationship. If you are still in the relationship, individual therapy may be a better starting point — and we would love to support you there.
The group is intentionally kept small to create a safe, intimate environment where every participant feels heard. Exact size is limited — reach out to ask about current availability.
All sessions are held online via a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform. You can join from anywhere in North Carolina — all you need is a private space and reliable internet.
Call us at 704-216-4998, email admin@catescc.com, or use the scheduling link below to request a brief intake conversation. Dr. Cates will ensure the group is the right fit before enrollment is confirmed.
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